{"id":782,"date":"2026-06-01T08:09:00","date_gmt":"2026-06-01T07:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/goodwords.info\/?p=782"},"modified":"2026-05-27T12:25:17","modified_gmt":"2026-05-27T11:25:17","slug":"and-my-life-is-out-of-my-control-it-is-as-if-my-future-is-already-decided","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/goodwords.info\/?p=782","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;and my life is out of my control it is as if my future is already decided.&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Some people think life is like a train track that only goes one way. But it\u2019s actually like a big box of Lego!. You don\u2019t have to build what the box shows you. You can take the pieces apart and build a castle, a spaceship, or a race car whenever you want!. You get to choose the shape of your day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Why it Happens:<\/strong> Your life is a reflection of belief systems programmed at a subconscious level. If these aren&#8217;t questioned, they feel like &#8220;destiny&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>How to Fix It:<\/strong> Visualise a different future. It is as simple as that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Context:<\/strong> The Swiss psychiatrist <strong>Carl Jung<\/strong> emphasized that we should not copy others but find our own &#8220;uniqueness&#8221;. 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