{"id":792,"date":"2026-06-10T17:53:00","date_gmt":"2026-06-10T16:53:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/goodwords.info\/?p=792"},"modified":"2026-08-10T10:57:15","modified_gmt":"2026-08-10T09:57:15","slug":"i-feel-inferior-because-im-not-as-successful-or-fast-as-other-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/goodwords.info\/?p=792","title":{"rendered":"I feel inferior because I\u2019m not as successful or fast as other people."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Growing up isn&#8217;t a race! Some flowers bloom in the morning, and some bloom at night. If you have been told differently, it is most likely for someone else&#8217;s benefit. It is also very short sighted. You are like a little garden. Every time you choose to be kind to yourself or learn something new, you\u2019re planting a seed for a &#8220;Better You&#8221;. You don&#8217;t have to be perfect today; you just have to be &#8220;You&#8221; and keep growing at your own speed!.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Why it Happens:<\/strong> We often rely on &#8220;uneducated comprehension of past events&#8221; where we were compared to others as children by people suffering the same lack of comprehension for themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>How to Fix It:<\/strong> Access your own internal guidance and self-approval. Ask yourself: what is the most positive and constructive thing that worked your past experience?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Context:<\/strong> British researcher <strong>John Gruzelier<\/strong> found that while left-brain dominance helps focus, the right-brain allows for &#8220;dreamlike perceptions&#8221; and growth. 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