{"id":910,"date":"2026-09-07T02:08:00","date_gmt":"2026-09-07T01:08:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/goodwords.info\/?p=910"},"modified":"2026-09-07T21:39:40","modified_gmt":"2026-09-07T20:39:40","slug":"when-do-i-know-that-i-do-too-much","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/goodwords.info\/?p=910","title":{"rendered":"When do I know that I do too much"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This feeling of being overwhelmed happens because your mind and body work together like an <strong>engine<\/strong> designed for survival. According to <strong>&#8220;Cognitive Load Theory,&#8221;<\/strong> your conscious mind has a limited capacity and can only handle about 7 pieces of information at once. When you exceed this limit, your engine becomes &#8220;overloaded,&#8221; leading to a bottleneck where you experience &#8220;delusion&#8221; and fatigue. Your body naturally tries to reduce effort by turning repetitive patterns into unconscious habits, but if you don&#8217;t pause to ask &#8220;Why am I doing this?&#8221;, you get stuck in a loop of constant, unproductive activity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>How to Fix It:<\/strong> To fix this, you must understand the difference between mental <strong>&#8220;wants&#8221;<\/strong> (I want to help everyone) and biological <strong>&#8220;needs&#8221;<\/strong> (my body needs recovery to function). Use a somatic grounding: if you feel your focus slipping, pause, breathe, and feel your feet firmly on the floor to signal to your brain that you are safe. You can also use the <strong>&#8220;10\/10\/10 Rule&#8221;<\/strong> to filter your tasks: ask yourself if this specific job will still matter in 10 minutes, 10 months, or 10 years. This acts as a &#8220;check-up&#8221; for your engine, allowing it to cool down and recover its power.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Context Research:<\/strong> European research emphasizes that not all pressure is bad, but there is a limit. <strong>Professor Hans Selye<\/strong> defined stress as the body&#8217;s non-specific response to any demand placed on it. This is illustrated by <strong>Stephen Williams\u2019 &#8220;Pressure Performance Curve,&#8221;<\/strong> which shows that while a little pressure provides a healthy <strong>&#8220;stretch&#8221;<\/strong> that improves performance, crossing the peak leads to <strong>&#8220;Strain&#8221;<\/strong> and eventually total burnout. In the &#8220;Strain&#8221; phase, your health and judgment rapidly decline because your system is flooded with cortisol from the nervous system.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" data-dominant-color=\"625d58\" data-has-transparency=\"false\" style=\"--dominant-color: #625d58;\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/goodwords.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Balance-your-energy-at-GoodWords.info_.webp?resize=819%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-911 not-transparent\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/goodwords.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Balance-your-energy-at-GoodWords.info_.webp?resize=819%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 819w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/goodwords.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Balance-your-energy-at-GoodWords.info_.webp?resize=240%2C300&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/goodwords.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Balance-your-energy-at-GoodWords.info_.webp?resize=768%2C960&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/goodwords.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Balance-your-energy-at-GoodWords.info_.webp?resize=600%2C750&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/goodwords.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Balance-your-energy-at-GoodWords.info_.webp?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">FAQ: <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Q: What exactly happens during a hypnotherapy session? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A: You enter a state of focused attention and deep relaxation, allowing the subconscious mind to become more open to positive suggestions and behavioural change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Q: Will I lose control or reveal secrets during hypnosis? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A: No, you remain conscious and in control throughout; you cannot be forced to do or say anything against your will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Q: How many sessions are typically needed to see a result? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A: This varies by individual and goal, but many people experience a shift in perspective or feeling after a few sessions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Q: Is hypnotherapy a replacement for medical treatment? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A: It is a complementary therapy used to manage the psychological impact of conditions, such as pain management, but it does not replace medical intervention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Q: Can hypnotherapy help children or teenagers? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A: Yes, tailored approaches such as introducing hypnosis to children or building self esteem for teenagers are highly effective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Q: How do I know if a practitioner is qualified? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A: Look for transparent credentials and a clear explanation of their psychotherapeutic approach, as seen in the references and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mitellus.com\/?p=11743\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">practice standards<\/a> of <a href=\"https:\/\/goodwords.info\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Alexandre Mitellus<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you feel like doing everything, but just getting more tired and grumpy. 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