Author: maw
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“Everyone is judging me, I don’t fit in.
Imagine everyone is carrying a mirror. Sometimes, when people have feelings, they look at other people to seek what the look like from outside if they had his feeling like if they were facing their mirror and saw their own face, but they forgot they are looking at you! You don’t match what their mirrors…
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I’ve lost my spark
… ”I’m just bored and tired all the time.” Your brain is like a beautiful garden. If you never plant new seeds or pull out the weeds, the garden gets messy and boring. Boredom is like “mental rust”—it means your engine is sitting still for too long! To get your spark back, you need to…
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“I’m terrified of making the wrong decision; I’m just stuck.”
Imagine you are standing at a crossroads with ten different paths. You are so worried about picking the “best” one that you just sit down in the dirt and don’t move at all! But even sitting in the dirt is a choice. It’s better to pick a path, walk for a little bit, and see…
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“The harder I try to quit a bad habit, the more I want to do it!”
When you are playing tug-of-war against a giant. The harder you pull on the rope (your “will power”), the harder the giant (your “imagination”) pulls back! To win, you don’t need to pull harder; you just need to drop the rope and go play a different game instead. Okay Sometimes things get on the way…
